We felt like we should have a place where everyone can speak about our mom Leslie. She touched many people's lives. Please feel free to post any comments, thoughts or memories of Leslie and Gary by clicking on the comments link directly below this post. We encourage anyone who knew our mom or knew of her to post including those she met on her travels, those who she taught in school and anyone else. We thank you in advance for your support.
96 comments:
Met with Gary and Leslie twice in Ft Collins and My wife and I looked forward to meeting them again and extended a stay at our place in Las Vegas if they made it through.
Leslie will be mist by all who knew her.
Our prayers go out to the Family in this time of sadness.......Ron & Linda a.k.a. (kantornado & THE NAVIGATOR)
Deb and I are so sory for your loss. We have only met them once and they were a pleasure to talk to. They will be missed by so many people. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Joe and Deb A.K.A. Star4772
Matt and Jeff
I only met your parents in person 2 or 3 times but have Known them through the VentureRider.org Forum.Your parents are very special people to all of us that have had the Honor of knowing them.They came to the Savannah Ga meet and eat that I hosted last year and were so full of life and looking forward to enjoying retirement. I just like everyone else am Very Sorry for your loss. Please lest us know if there is anything at all that we can do.
Jeff
AKA Muffinman VR.Org
I honestly don't know what to say. Gary and Leslie are two of the finest people I have had the pleasure of knowing. When I founded VentureRider.org about 4 years ago, I never envisioned the caring friendships that would come of it. Gary and Leslie are perfect examples of what our club is about. I had the pleasure of spending time with both of them on several occasions and was even honored to have them at my home at an annual meet that I hold here in Ohio. Anybody with preconceived notions about people who ride motorcycles need only to have met this couple to have any bad misconceptions immediately debunked. You would have to look far and wide to find a couple with more class or bigger hearts than Gary and Leslie. To say that I and the rest of the Venturerider members are hurting is just such a huge understatement. Leslie will be forever missed by those whose life she touched. I can't profess to feel the pain that Gary much be enduring at a time of such a loss but if there is anything at all that we can do, we will be there to do it. God bless him and the rest of the family during this time. They will continue to be in our prayers.
My wife Sam and I met Gary and Leslie only once, they are truly wonderful people and had a way about them that made everyone who spoke with them walk away with a smile.
To say we are heartbroken about this tragedy would be an understatement.
I truly hope that some of the thoughts printed here can bring a small amount of comfort to Gary and the rest of the family during this most trying time.
Vin and Samantha Tirelli
Venturerider.org
Al and I have had the honor to spend quite a bit of time with Gary and Leslie. They are both kind, polite, and gracious people, not to mention, lots of fun to be around. I cry freely when I mourn the loss of Leslie, she will truly be missed. As long as I live, I will never be able to understand, or accept, why bad things happen to such good people....Matt and Jeff, you are very lucky young men, your mom talked about you often and with much, much love as did your dad. They are very proud of both of you. We are truly sorry for your loss......Diane B. and Al Bates
Gary and Leslie though we only met briefly at Maint Day in June we consider you family. Our hearts are heavy with sorrow for the loss of Leslie. May the Lord keep here in that wonderful place he has prepared. Gary our prayers for a speedy recovery and Gods grace abide in your heart.Ramona and I will remember you and your family in our prayers.
Gerald & Ramona Bosely
Ireland,West Virginia
Jim and I are so sorry for your loss. We only met Leslie a couple of times, but we were very grateful to her, for always feeding our son Jeff, while he was in her home studying with her son Matt. If there is anything we can do for all of you, please let us know. Matt, I'm sending you the biggest hug a Mom can send.
Love from Jim and Diane Defoe
Jeff & Matt: You are very thoughtful & we appreciate this blog as a tribute to your mom. My husband & I taught at Essex High School. My husband, Gary Wright worked with your mom for many years in the Math Dept. We are so glad that your mom & dad spent a day with us last winter at our 2nd home in Florida. That "perfect day" we also went on a nearby boat cruise on the Dora Canal where your mom took lots of photos. She was in awe, watching the birds & alligators. I have 3 digital photos that I took that day and I will always remember the smiles on both of your parents faces. If you want me to send them to you I can. (char@netscape.ca) Your mom & dad were so happy & were thoroughly enjoying their retirement. We will never forget your mom as a wonderful lady & a very professional conscientious teacher. We hope you find comfort in the memories you have of your mom. She loved both of you so much. We are so sorry for your loss & we wish your dad a speedy recovery. Char & Gary Wright (char@netscape.ca)
My wife (Lonna) and I have known your parents for a couple of years. They were always ones to come over stateside to have lunch with the group and ride afterwards.
Our friendships started to grow more everytime we were able to be with eachother and this was exciting and a pleasure. Your parents are the best folks that the world have to offer. So many memories of the 4 of us riding together, of meeting up for supper or lunch.
I remember when your father lead us on a ride along the north shore of lake Erie. We stopped in St. Thomas and had lunch on the waterfront, what a great day that was. When in Colorado this year at our gathering he again took the lead and led us on a ride through the Rockies. Those are the memories and images that I will keep in my head.
No words can express the sorrow that is in our hearts from your mother passing. She was an extraordinary woman with a heart as big as the heavens. We are truly going to miss her smile and laugh. Although we didn't get to spend a lot of time with her, we felt very comfortable around her. We will never forget her...if you young men need anything from us...we are here for you. God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow...Brad Newby
We are all grieving with you boys. The 11th has lossed a wonderful woman. A precious soul who would stop and say Hi or wave to every neighbor outside as she went on her daily walks. I also had the priviledge of having your mom as a teacher and she shared such enthusiasm for her love of math. I am blessed to have known your mom. She will be missed. Hold onto the love, remember her smile.
Praying for your dad's recovery and for a peace beyond all understanding to help you all cope.
Stephanie Pouget (nee Smith)
How to express how one feels at such time.
I had the pleasure of meeting Gary with the promise of a visit. He kept his word and found his way in my driveway last summer. He made an impression on my wife however brief his stay was.
My daughter Hope and I had the privledge of meeting up with him and the so delicate Leslie at Don' Maintenace Day in June2007. Our hearts go out to this family and we sympathize and understand what they are going thru as we experienced how it feels to rebuild our lives after such tragedy.
Friends like Gary and Leslie are to find
May Gary find the courage and the strength to walk away from this nightmare
Charlie Lumbis aka "E-Fishin-C" from Venturerider
Marilyn and I are just numb. Gary lent us a jack and tools while we were at Ft.Collins and would have stayed to help if we allowed him too. We told them to go off and enjoy their ride, they did. They seemed so happy on that beautiful bike.
We are praying for Gary's full recovery and mourn the loss of your Mom Leslie.
Take care guys...we are all here for you....that is a fact.
Rick
sarges46
venturerider.org
Hello Jeff and Matt,
I haven't stopped thinking about you two since I heard about this horrible tragedy. I pray for your Dad to recover and heal from this life altering event. Working with your Mom for over thiry years built strong bonds. She was so brilliant, so focused, so devoted, to Essex District High School. But, she also was devoted to her family....she was so proud of you two. I think she was most proud on the stage that night at your graduations. She loved your Dad so much, in so many ways, for such a long time. I will miss her tremedously. Please call me if you need anything...the school has my number.
Karen Parr Gignac
Jeff & Matt,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I have too met your mother and father in person. They are part of our website "family" of VentureRiders. I hope Gary recovers soon and I know he will continue remembering Leslie as we all will..... Thoughts & Prayers to your family through this very difficult time.
Skid @ VentureRider.org
My fondest (and funniest) memory of your mom was her playing Dance Dance Revolution in the basement. We all know how good you are, Matt, but your mom was really good, too! She was almost as good as you were!
She will be missed by all who knew her as she touched many lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you guys.
Lawrence and Lynne xoxo
Matt and Jeff:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mom was a wonderful part of my high school years. She taught me several math classes, and we got along great. I can says with confidence that I would not be where I am today without her. She clearly did a wonderful job raising the two of you. Please get in touch any time if you want to talk.
Ethan B
Jeff,& Matt,
We will be very much in prayer for you and Gary as you all go through this sorrowful time.I never really know what to say at times like these. Hold on to you memories of the love your Mother had for both of you and for Gary as well. God will be there if you just call on him to wrap you in his loving arms.
Craig and Patsy Long (vr.org)
RSV Angel
Matt and Jeff. Our prayers are with everyone involved in this tragedy. Dianne and I have met Gary and Leslie at many Venturerider functions and one could not find better people than them.Your Mom will surely be missed and I pray for a full recovery for your Dad and the strength for all of you to endure the times ahead.
John & Dianne Downton (AKA Relic)
My words can only echo the many sentiments posted here. Leslie
was a dedicated professional and
a very proud mom who would do anything to help her students and her two wonderful sons. I feel lucky to have known her and to have taught with her. She was always calm and took everything in stride. The day of the notorious
cafeteria food-fight-live chicken fiasco, years ago, the two of us were on duty. Leslie was on top of
things. I have no doubt her calm
serenity is directing us even now.
May her strength be your strength.
That is her legacy.
Dorothy Mahoney, Essex High School
Oh Dear Matt and Jeff: We are in shock at this horible news! I just looked at the photo of your mom and dad on our deck when they visited us in July 2005. Brian and I were just pulling up to the dock on our pontoon boat and who should we see waiting for us on the big rock but Leslie and Gary! We had a great chat on the deck that night, then the next day we went for a boat ride through the locks at Rosedale and Fenelon Falls, and ate a picnic lunch in Fenelon. It was a stifling hot day, so a good one to be on the water. When we got back home, your mom wasn't satisfied with just going back to their campsite alone; she insisted on our going back with them so she could barbecue pork chops for us. She whipped up a meal, including dessert, in no time, which was par for the course for Leslie. I could tell that your dad was proud of his wife for being such an efficient hostess. She was so well-organized in her trailer, just like in her home. And I know she taught you two to help her cook and clean. That's what good moms do, and Leslie was the best!
Jeff, remember when you used to come to our house in LaSalle for trombone lessons with Lyall? Well, a couple of times your dad drove you, and he always had his eye on this car down the street that was for sale; i think it was an older Lincoln. Your mom, though, talked him out of it: he already had lots of vehicles to work on! She drove you most of the time, and when she came in the front door, Floppy (our beagle) would wag her tail in excitement and run over to Leslie because Leslie would always take Floppy for a walk around the neighbourhood. Your mom always made Floppy's day.
Here is a great big hug for each of you, Matt and Jeff! We love you both... Anne & Brian Barbour
I am so sorry for the loss of Leslie. I have had the great pleasure of meeting Gary and Leslie several times. I first met them on my tour to Canada. They so graciously welcomed me to their home, took me to dinner, and we enjoyed an antique car show. They were coming for a visit to my home while they were in the Roanoke Valley,prior to their accident.Leslie was the kindest and most gracious person that anyone could ever meet.My life was enriched just from the pleasure of knowing her. My heart cries for her,Gary, and her sons.May she rest in peace.
Tim Amburn
Reidsville,NC
VentureRiders-Timd261
Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Gary & Leslie in person, we often shared discussions via the Venture Riders family. Your loss has impacted more individuals than you can probably realize. Our hope is that the knowledge of this large, extended family wishing well and sending prayers can offer some comfort as you work through this difficult time.
Greg "WilCruise" Wilson
Mrs. Nantais was the most incredibly welcoming and kind-hearted person. I went to university with Matt and she always welcomed me into her home and adjusted plans for dinner, creating 6-course meals in a matter of minutes.
Her piano practicing accompanied Matt and I while we did homework and projects sometimes; it was very relaxing.
Mrs. Nantais was a generous, quick-to-laugh, energetic woman who made everyone around her smile.
Our deepest condolences to all of her family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear Matt & Jeff Ken & I are just
devastated by your Mom's death &
Dad's injuries.
We had the privilege of spending four great days together at the
Louisville street rod nationals in Aug. We had a fantastic time and went to dinner a few times together in our 1929 sedan.
Your Mom & Dad are like family. We will be in touch when we get home.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you
Ken & Gail Reder
Oh Matt! I just can't believe this could happen to your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Your Mom was an awesome person. Everytime we came over to your house for the project, there would be yummy cookies made. Your Mom played the piano very well, I really enjoyed listening to her play. I hope your Dad recovers quickly. We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Maggie & Brett Little
I never had your mom as a teacher while I was at Essex High School but had talked to her a few times and she was very kind to me. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Tammy Kennette
Jeff and Matt...Words cannot explain the sorrow we feel at the loss of your mother. Personally I only met her twice, at your Grandma Ollie's funeral and again at your Grandpa Clarence's 80th birthday party but she was very nice to me on both occasions. I remember how much pride your Dad had in showing us his precious car collection that day and how much my oldest son's eyes bugged out (he's now almost 15) at all the wonderful restorations in the garage.
Take comfort in knowing that all of your relatives here in Sombra are keeping you both and your father in our thoughts and prayers.
I'm leaving my email here in hopes that we can be notified about funeral arrangements and I will pass them on to the rest of the family here.
Jody Nantais
jhunt@xcelco.on.ca
Matt & Jeff,
You are both in our thoughts and prayers. Your Mom was such a nice woman and I had her as a teacher in high school but I knew her more as a neighbour. I remember going over and seeing each of you when you were born and babysitting you Matt when you were small. I moved away for years but moved back and bought my parents house 3 years ago and became neighbours with you guys again. Your Dad was always so kind to clear our driveway out in the winter and never wanted anything for it.
We prayer that your Dad has a full recovery soon and you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Your Mom was a great woman that will always be remembered.
Debbi Adams (nee Latam)
I had the pleasure of working with Leslie over the last 6 years at Essex District High School. I met Gary shortly after I bought my motorcycle, they stopped by one day to see my bike, and give me some pointers.
Leslie stopped by my room one day at the school with a "Foxtrot" cartoon, a "Numerical Word Search" which she said she had solved in 10 minutes. She had me hooked like I was one of her students.
When she retired, she gave me a slide rule which I use almost every day. I will continue to think of her every time I use it. I will never forget her guidance, subtle humour, and devotion to her students.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Jeff and Matt, let me know if I can help in any way. Neil Arner, EDHS
I am sooo sorry for your loss. As a co-worker and former student of Mrs. Nantais I am shocked and saddened by this tragedy. My heart goes out to you Matt and Jeff, and to your father. Leslie was a great woman and I will never forget grade 11 math. Matt, you will remember too...we sat beside each other in her class. In fact, when she was cleaning out her classroom en route to retirement, Mrs. Nantais came to me asked me if I remembered where I sat. I did, and so did she! She pulled out the old seating plan from 10 short years ago. Leslie had kept every seating plan of all her classes. She was a dedicated teacher and an amazing person who truly enjoyed her life. Staff and students at Essex High are thinking of you and your family and we are all thankfull for her years of dedication to our school. She will be missed and remembered.
Lindsay Miller
I was a student in your mother's gifted math classes in high school. I can still picture her in our classroom so enthusiastic about a problem she was solving that she was literally running from blackboard to blackboard. When I joined the staff at E.D.H.S., I got to know Leslie as a colleague and friend. She was always positive, supportive and encouraging... and still had the same enthusiasm I remembered from 15 years before. I am so sorry for your loss.
Brilliant mathematician
patron of the arts
generous soul
I had the priviledge of eating lunch with Leslie most days of my 16 years of teaching at EDHS. We shared laughs, frustrations, camping tips and even a housekeeper!
I am praying for healing and inner peace for all of "her men" as you all transition into this new part of your journey.
Karen Tompkins
Matt and Jeff. Words cannot discribe the feeling of loss you must be going through. Your Mom was a wonderful woman who helped me with many a thing. She never told me i couldn't do it. She was always positive and i will miss her deeply. My prayers and thaughts are with you.
You're mother taught me from 2001-2005 at Essex High...she was my FAVORITE teacher. She was so sweet and caring. She CARED about my passion for learning, and she helped me strive to be the best I could. I owe a lot to your mother, and I will never forget her. She was amazing, and will be missed dearly.
You guys stay strong, she's looking over you three right now smiling. Smile back, even if it's hard. Smile because she'd want you to. Talk to her, she's listening. Cry. Cry a lot. She's gone for now, but you'll see her again when it's time.
Matt and Jeff,
Your mom was a wonderful person and an extraordinary teacher. Her passion for helping others was apparent in all of her day to day activities. She will be sorely missed by more people than we will every know. If I can help out with anything, please don't hesitate to ask.
Steve, Sharon and Julie
Not sure what to say in this post.
Jeff: I'm just thinking about our trombone lessons like my mom said in the earlier post.
Matt: I've got you pictured at jazz practise with your horn.
Essex Kent marching band. Essex District High school band. Concerts, musicals, lessons, etc. All the while your mom always had a smile on her face.
She always wanted to know how Jeff was doing with his lessons. She wanted him to improve and i never heard her scold ever. Your dad was interested too, i remember. I can't really remember anyone _not_ liking Mrs. Nantais. Maybe that was because i liked her classes so much. Algebra and Finite math weren't the easiest classes i had but getting through them with your mom was a cake walk.
That's all i got. Kinda stunned....
Lyall
Having Mrs. Nantais as a math teacher I remember her as extremely kind and intelligent. My thoughts and prayers go out to her boys and the rest of the family.
Mrs. Nantais was my son, John's, Gr. 11 and 12 math teacher. There was no teacher finer. Even though he already had good marks, she would let him stay after school to put the finishing touches on math tests. He is now in second year math and physics at Queen's University. She inspired at after school math contest practice sessions. She was very humble but full of smiles when I thanked her at graduation. I have a lovely picture that I will copy for you. I've asked John to share this blog with EDHS friends.
A friend told me that her daughters had your Mom for math. They struggled. They said Mrs. Nantais was like a little mouse running around the room smiling and helping everybody.
We give thanks for the gift that was Leslie Nantais.
Judy Hissink, Sandwich SS
I'm no good at writing this kind of thing, but we, like everyone, can't believe that this has happened. Just Monday, your mom was in taking Aquafit. It has been a very somber week at the pool. Everyone who knew your mom absolutely adored her. I remember all the way back to OM when we were younger and she was so involved in your lives. Both of your parents are fabulous people. Your dad gave me my first rose ever! I'll never forget that... all of the adults teased him that I was his little girlfriend (Washington DC World's Competition). I never had your mom for math, but from what I have heard, she was phenomenal. We've been getting people to sign cards for your family and a get well card for your father at the pool and I know there will be many of them attending the funeral arrangments. There is such an outpouring of love and sympathy for you right now. You can't go anywhere in town and not hear people talking about it or have people asking if anyone has updates. Please know that there are so many who love and care for you and will help you in any way possible. Just be sure to ask.
Much love,
Amy Brett (nee Augustine)
I met Leslie several years ago. I went to their house to play with her son Matt, when we were growing up. She was always very friendly and made you feel at home in their home. Later on she was also my math teacher in school. I wasn't the smartest person in class or the most behaved but she made it a joy to learn. I was happy to get to know here on 2 levels, as my friends mom and a teacher. She will be missed.
Be strong Matt and Jeff.
Dustin Last
Guys, You are in our thoughts and prayers. I worked with your mom and she is one of the nicest people I have ever known. I know how proud she is of you - don't ever forget that. We will continue to keep you and your dad in our thoughts - wishing him a full recovery. I only hope I can give my students and co-workers the wonderful gift your mother gave every one of her students and her co-workers just by being in the building.
Marg M-B
Matt, Jeff, and Mr. Nantais,
You and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I had your Mom for Math in Grade Nine in 1997 and her passion and prose for math were magnificent. She was always encouraging her students to strive for success. You and your family will be in my prayers and in the prayers of the McMurren families. Many of my cousins and other family members attended Essex District High School. Many of them had her for math. I remember your Mom's flare for the arts as well. She was always so encouraging when the drama classes were doing a new play or the odyssey of the mind students were preparing for their tournaments. I also remember that your Mom had a passion for seeing Essex High students succeed and proceed with their dreams. During this time, please remember to spend time with each other and remember that your Mom is right there beside you. With many thoughts, prayers and condolences,
Hillary R McMurren
Mr Nantais , Jeff and Matt , My husband and I both attented EDHS , I did not have the priviledge of having Leslie as a teacher but my husband did.Scott remembers growing up with the Nantais as neighbours and my inlaws are still neighbours with your parents. Scott has told me the story many times about the time he was about 13 or so and he was selling pop off your backyard to the people on the golf course. The owner stopped by to tell him he couldn't do it any more. Leslie came out and told him Scott was on her property and had her permission . Scott is still grateful to this day she stood up for him. Our prayers are with you and your family. Scott and Kathleen Crooker
Mrs. Nantais was my math teacher in high school. I enjoyed her class and always liked having her as a teacher. I was sad to find out about the accident even as I am currently living in Taiwan. My friends, and my church family in Taiwan have joined with me in praying for your family. I am so sorry for your loss and only have good memories of your mom.
With deepest sincerity,
Natalie Farough
To the Nantais Family
I am very sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing to say to make this any easier, but hold your heads up high, Leslie was a wonderful women, and I wouldn't be where I am today if it wasn't for her!!! My prayers are with you!!
Matt:
We grew up together and been through a lot. My mom called me right away to tell me the news. I wish I was closer to visit and could be there with you. If there is anything I can do please email me. nrfarough@gmail.com
I was so saddened when I heard the news. This is such a tragedy. I lived right around the corner from you in Bakerville. (My parents still live there.) Your parents would allow many of the neighboring kids to sell pop & golf balls from the corner of the property. The golf course owner didn’t like it but couldn’t do anything about it. Your parents didn’t see any harm. I remember going over to the house and checking out the cars including when the Ford coupe was being built. Your dad loved to talk about cars. I didn’t have Mrs. Nantais as a math teacher but we spoke often. I would miss the school bus often and she would pick me up and drive us to school. She was such a nice lady, an inspiration for us all. She will be missed. She truly made a difference in this world and her footprints are firmly imbedded in many people’s lives. My thoughts and prays are with the family. Gary, get well and may you have a full recovery.
Blair Crooker
(My dad has the red Dodge Challenger around the corner.)
I just want to say that i am deeply sorry for your loss. I had your mom as my math teacher and i truly believe that she is the best math teacher Essex has ever had. She would stay after class no matter what to help me and others with our math. She was a great and caring person. She made this world a better place and Essex High a better place to learn.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Chad Santo
I had the privilage of having Mrs. Nantais as a math teacher. As well as getting to know Jeff in classes at EDHS.
My thoughts and prayers are with all the Nantais family.
Katie Blois
Matt & Jeff,
I know I don't have to tell you how amazing a person your mom was. Someone so passionate about teaching, she was a true inspiration to any student that had the pleasure of knowing her. And I can't remember a play or musical when your mom wasn't in the audience and congratulating us personally for a great performance. And as I read all these other amazng posts I realize she touched so many others' lives just as much as mine. I am blessed for having known her.
My thoughts are with you both and I pray for your dad's speedy recovery.
Nicole Farough
Matt and Jeff,
We met your parents through Street rodding and they stopped by our place a few times over the years. Your mom was the nicest and most vibrant person we've ever met. Please accept our condolences and let your Dad know that we are thinking of him.
Don and Donna Bethune, St. Thomas, Ontario
Matt and Jeff,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and you're family. Although I never really had the opportunity to have your mother as a teacher or really get to know her as a person, it is very apparent from reading these blogs that she has made a huge impact on the lives of many.
My condolences,
Jim Renaud
Your mother was my math teather for 2 years and she tutored me when I had trouble. She was very helpful and one of my favourite teachers. We always had lots of talks about different things, including how she loved Star Trek. She will be truly missed. I'm soo sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Chad
I have lots of memories of Mrs. Nantais. She taught me in 5 different math classes, plus we were involved in OM together, including one year where our team workshop was in her basement!
On one of our OM trips to Maryland we met with many people as we often do. Another team we were talking with was from Russia, now most of the students spoke English, but their teacher did not. Mrs. Nantais found out that the teacher was a mathematician! She scrambled to find a pen and some paper, we were all wondering what she was doing. She proceeded to write some math stuff down and when she was finished, both her and the Russian were laughing. She had told him a "math joke". I'll never forget that.
I have a tremendous amount of respect for her, and am thinking of you, Matt and Jeff at this time. She was a special person who was able to touch countless people's lives.
Natalie Morse
im at a lose for words on what to say to you all. I only met your parents once or twice but i have known you for so long it affects me directly as well.
ill be there for you two.
Dear Gary and family:
We enjoyed seeing you & Leslie on Thursday nights at the 50's diner cruise-in's at Heritage Village. We envied your retirement travel plans. As we attempt to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary this week our thoughts are sombre. Can't stop thinking of you & your family during this very difficult time. Please know "we care."
Dear Nantais family,
I remember many happy miles shared with Leslie, from local rides in Michigan and along the Lake Erie shoreline to places far away like Colorado, where she and Gary welcomed me into their "home on the road" to discuss the best sights to visit the following day. I looked forward to her ever present smile and the added touch of class she brought to any gathering she attended. As a fellow Ontario Secondary School Teacher we shared the joys and challenges of our respective subjects and schools whenever we met. Since her retirement, it was her special delight to jokingly taunt me because I had to return to work at the end of August while she could continue traveling into the Fall season. I will celebrate Leslie's life with you during these sad days and I will cherish these memories of her forever. Gary, Matthew and Jeffrey, may God bless you and keep you, and give you the strength to carry on.
With my deepest sympathy,
David Fast aka "Swifty"
Kitchener, Ontario
Matt & Jeff, I was shocked to hear the news. I never had the pleasure of meeting your mother, but from what I've read I know that she was a greatly loved woman. My thoughts and prayers are with your father for a full recovery. If you ever need anything from the guys in Lasalle don't hesitate to ask, we'll be here.
I was very sad to hear of your loss. I was in Mrs. Nantais' math class for 5 years in a row (back when we still had OAC's) and that makes her the teacher that I've spent the most time with in my life. She was so organized, enthusiastic and patient with all of the students. When they cancelled funding for gifted students, our grade 12 class was merged with another math class and that gave me an even greater opportunity to see just how truly amazing she was as a teacher. She could meet the demands of such a diverse body of students without ever losing her cool! I studied math (as an option), all the way through university and am now a chemistry professor. The courses I teach are all of the physical/mathematical ones and over the past few years, I've had students remark on how much math they've learned from me in the context of studying chemistry. This undoubtedly has its roots in Mrs. Nantais' teachings all those years ago! I know that my understanding of and enthusiasm for the subject came from her. This is a valuabe gift that she bestowed upon so many students over the years and one that I hope to pass along to my students. I visted her once 3-4 years ago at EDHS and she warmly embraced me and remembered much more about me that I could! She truly touched my life and she will be missed!
Jennifer van Wijngaarden
I live down the road from the Nantais family. I remember my first day of high school, I missed my bus home. Leslie...Mrs. Nantais...was kind enough to give me a ride home. I've heard from several others that she did the same for them. She also bolstered my love for math by being a fantastic and caring Algebra and Geometry teacher. I'll miss seeing her walking with Gary each night before dusk.
Leslie was my grade 9 and 10 math teacher over 10 years ago. I had always struggled with math and she never hesitated to take the extra time to help me at lunch and after school. She was a smart, dedicated teacher.
Dear Matt and Jeff,
I haven't talked to you in a while but I heard the news about your parents in the newspaper. I want to give you an internet hug and tell you I'm thinking about you. You have a lovely family and I'm so sorry this happened.
Matt & Jeff...
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I never really know what to say at times like these but know that my thoughts are with you and with your dad at this time. If there is anything I can help out with, please don't hesitate to ask.
Hays
Matt and Jeff Debby and I met your Mom and Dag here in Texas in March where we shared several days together. we went to see "Wild Hogs" and had a wonderful dinner with them in Kerrville,TX. we met again at the Meet in FT Collins,CO and had a great time with them.Your Mom was truly the sweetest and most loving person I think I have ever met.I will cherish her in my memory forever Tom And Debby Hendry "Tom" Venturerider.org
I was a student of your mother for 3 years at Essex... She was truly a gifted educator who seemed to be able to sense a student's difficulties in math and show them the path to solve problems, without spoon-feeding them the solution... I share in the other bloggers' grief on her passing... I also wish a speedy and full recovery to your father...
Mark Bonneau - Class of '86
Gary, Matthew and Jeff,
We were so terribly sorry to hear about Leslie. It was such a tragic accident. We have fond memories of working for so many years together at E.D.H.S. We were on the academic awards committee together for quite a few years, a job Leslie enjoyed so much. She was always so proud when it was time for you two boys to come on stage and receive your plaque (or bar for your plaque) - she was beaming from ear to ear.
Helping out in the courtyard was another job we shared. As we pulled weeds together we got a glimpse of the Nantais household as we traded stories about life outside the classroom.
Leslie was great for keeping us informed about the "goings on" and "events" happening at E.D.H.S. after we had both retired. She always wanted to hear about our latest trip as she and Gary started to make plans upon her retirement.
Unfortunately Don and I are leaving for out west but we want you to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Leslie will be sorely missed.
May the loving memories you hold in your hearts sustain you and give you strength during this most difficult time and may time gently ease your sadness.
Sincerely, Don and Linda Bracken
Gary, Matt, and Jeff....we are so sorry for your terrible loss and one which has shaken our whole community...wishing you strength, comfort, and endless support for the days ahead...John and Cynthia postons and family
Matt and Jeff,
Your mother loved you both so much.
The very first time that I met you, was way back when you were on my softball team in Woodslee. Your mom was always there cheering for the team and encouraging you to have fun with the game. She was always smiling.
I remember when my son Adam was having difficulty with grade 10 math and Leslie stayed after school to help him. He passed math that year and to this day says that it was because of Leslie's patience and guidance.
Your mom also taught Jesse and was so enthusiastic about the gifted program. I remember fondly our trip to the Odyssey of the Mind competition in Orlando, Florida. Leslie and I shared a room and had such a good time talking, laughing and sharing stories.
Leslie loved music and came to many of Jesse's concerts. One day, she excitedly told me that she was taking piano lessons. She was doing it because she loved music and always wanted to learn how to play. I'm so glad she stuck with it for it gave her a great deal of satisfaction.
Whenever I met Leslie anywhere, she always stopped and chatted and asked what my children were doing. She was always so proud to tell me how you both were doing also.
Boys, keep the wonderful memories of your mother deep in your heart. No one can take those away from you.
Always be there for your father. He will need to lean on you both now and you need to be strong for him.
I will never forget your mother for the beautiful caring person that she was.
Bonnie Popov
Jeff and Family:
I was so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. I met you and your Mom when you were tutoring my son in Grade 12. He said your Mom made the BEST cookies. Our sincere condolences to you and your whole family. We pray for your Dad's recovery.
Tina McMenemy and Ian McMenemy
Essex, Ontario
I am very sorry for your loss. She was an amazing teacher. She was always willing to take the extra time to help and be sure you understood everything. She will be missed greatly as I am sure you can tell just by the response you are getting on this site. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time.
Amy W
Matt & Jeff,
Your Dad & Mom were our neighbours then along came each of you. We moved three years ago. Our daughter, Debbi and her family bought our house. Your Mom taught both of our children (Todd & Debbi) which they were very fortunate to have had that experience. I remember your Dad & Mom having their 25th Wedding Anniversary Celebration which the neighbours were invited too. It was so nice to be included. Your Dad was so kind to clean out the snow in our driveway in the winter.
We know you have suffered a great loss. Your Mom was a very special lady. Please know all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for a full recovery for your Dad.
Larry & Sharon Latam
Gary, Matt,and Jeff:
Mrs. Nantais was the best math teacher I've ever had, she taught me the critical thinking and logic skills that I need to perfrom well at University.
Mrs. Nantais would always stay after school to help students with their math, and even invite them to come in on their spares, while she had a prep. period. I will never forget the times Mrs. and I had, I would even go in, just to do my homework while she helped other, I just loved her so much.
Mrs. Nantais made a highschool mathematics class a fun place to be and not a strict quiet environment, she would have fun with us as well.
I like to think that I made Mrs. feel appreciated as a teacher, and always told her how good of teacher she was. The hardest thing thought is that I never realised just how good she taught me until I came here (McGill University) for school. I wish I could have just told her how much I owe her and how wonderful of a teacher she was.
Probably my fondest moment of Mrs. Nantais was at graduation in June (2007) when she told me how hard I worked in her class and I took a picture with her. That was the last time I ever got to see her.
Mrs. Nantais has left an impression on me that will last a lifetime and I will never forget her. I am truly sorry your loss.
Mike Puempel
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your Mom was a great woman and we hope your Dad has a full recovery. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Your neighbours three doors down,
Darin & Donna Fitch & Kids
Matt & Jeff,
This site was a great idea. I had your mom as a teacher at Essex High about 7 years ago. She was such an amazing teacher, and so passionate about math, which made the world of difference for her students. She always talked about how proud she was of both of you and all of your accomplishments. I am so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Brianne Thompson
Matt and Jeff and Gary
We were shocked to hear of your tragedy. Your Mom was such an amazing person. We know how proud she was of her two sons and how much she loved Gary. We know she was looking forward to many years of travel in their beautiful motorhome. In Florida last year, we enjoyed the BBQ at their campsite. Gary had been looking forward for several years to bringing Leslie to Barrie Flea Market when she retired. She finally got there this Sept. and we enjoyed several visits with them.
Gay,I'll think of you all whenever I have one of those 8.1% beers.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time and we wish Gary a speedy recovery.
Rich and Jean Carder
Matt, Jeff,
I'm really sorry to hear about this. Your mom always added a brightness to the room and visiting with your family was always something to look forward to. I was really hoping I'd get to see you all before I left the country and I wish I could be there now. This is a big loss to all of us and my thoughts and condolences are with you. Hope to see you soon.
Rick Lamoure
I was sad to hear of Mrs. Nantais' passing - and of her husband's injuries. She was one of my favourite teachers when I was making my way through high school. I never seemed to have much of a gift for math, but she was always so supportive and willing to help. I know that she'll be missed by everyone who knew her as she was a wonderful woman. My prayers go out to her family in this sad time.
I feel very fortunate that Leslie chose to trust me with her most precious possessions, Matt and Jeff for eight years. I was always treated as a friend and family member not an employee and called Aunt Marg. Many knew Leslie as a dedicated teacher, I knew Leslie as a dedicated Mother and friend.
I hope I will always be known as your Aunt Marg, and I hope you know you were always your Mother's most precious possessions.
Marg Hazael
Gary, Matt & Jeff
Words cannot express the shock in hearing of your loss of such a great lady. I got to know your mom with our involvement with the OM Teams, and our love of scrapbooking. She will be missed by alot of people.
If we can do anything, please do not hesitate to ask.
Deb, Ron, Chris & Ron Galos
Hi Matt and Jeff:
During our high school years, your mom did so much for the people around her - especially for you guys, and also all her students. She was someone who I looked up to and respected because she played such a big part in my life during that time.
First, there was the math... The math bursary fund was such a good idea. Your mom taught me three courses and she helped us prepare for the math contests every year. Then there's all she did with Odyssey of the Mind, her coaching and fundraising and coming on all those trips with us. She was also so supportive with my music and always bugged me to play your baby grand whenever i came over. She came to my performances and encouraged me so much, even if I played all the wrong notes.
And in all the things I did that she was part of, sometimes I pulled some pretty silly stunts, and I don't think she ever got angry with me... (except that one time)
I have been thinking about your mom all week and I am thinking about her now as you and your friends and family are gathering at EDHS at this moment to celebrate her life.
My thoughts are with you and your dad and I hope he has a speedy recovery. I'll always remember your mom as the warm and caring person that she was.
-- Jesse Popov --
Words cannot express how saddened I was when hearing the news about the passing of your mother. I was a former student (about 15 years ago) and although math was not my favorite subject Mrs Nantais was one of my favorite teachers. I can remember her energy in front of the class, working out math problems so quick, and doing it with such passion
My prayers go out to the family, so sorry for you loss.
Scott Stephens
Leslie always welcomed me at EDHS whenever I went to have lunch in the staff room she was always there, with a welcoming smile. Leslie and I talked a lot about playing the piano. She always kept me posted on the latest pieces she was learning in her piano studies. One day we found that old great big grand piano at EDHS and played music on that old broken down instrument. I would bring in my ILC Math courses when I was absolutely stuck I would always be able to count on her help. In 5 minutes everything would be clear. We marched the streets of the towns of Essex County with Kingsville Essex Band - her two sons and my two sons - for about two years.
Leslie was always cheerful. After school I would always see her helping students in her classroom.
I was shocked when she retired, because I had no idea she was had taught that long. Needless to say I was shocked and dismayed to hear about her death.
I am very thankful that I knew Leslie and that I had the opportunity to be a small part of her life.
I cannot imagine how much you must miss her, and I can only say that I think you are very lucky to have had such a wonderful mother and teacher in your family.
My deepest sympathy and condolences to all the family.
Words can't even describe the shock I felt when I read about the tragedy in the paper. I always saw your parents at Heritage Village on Thursday nights. I also remember hanging out with you guys in Florida. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this terrible time. My sincere condolences.
Lindsay McKeen Laplante
Matt & Jeff
It has been some time since I have come by to visit, and when I heard what happened from my brother, I was shocked. I'm sorry for what happened, for your mom was awesome to have as a teacher, even if I wasn't the greatest math student. Just know what you guys are in my thoughts and prayers and that if you ever need anything, don't hesitate to contact me via e-mail.
Your mother was a kind-hearted woman, respectable and wise. She will be greatly missed.
Duane Knight
aka "Tweeter"
Jeff and Matt,
I am sorry for your loss. Your mom was one of the most genuine and generous people I have ever met and, judging by the great response to this blog, it is clear that she touched a lot of lives.
I will always remember the six weeks or so between the end of March and the middle of May, when your mother let us mess up the basement in her beautiful home so that we could prepare for Odyssey World Finals. If I recall correctly, one year there were these huge paper mache masks that took a very long time to dry; it must have been months afterward before that basement was properly aired out, and stopped smelling of flour and glue!
No matter what havoc was wreaked on her home, she still prepared lunches for us, and was always there to cheer on the team in competition.
Your mother was definitely a great person: enthusiastic, kind, and patient. My thoughts and prayers go out to you both during what is surely a difficult time.
Take care,
Loreta Clozza
Gary, Matt, and Jeff,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, along with the rest of your family. Please let us know if there is anything at all we can do for you, and not just today, or tomorrow. We will be here for you guys, always.
Leslie was a wonderful Lady, who had touched so many lives,always with a smile, and her happiness was contagious. I have several great memories of her, as we seemed to get together with her and Gary at least once a month for one delivery or another. Parts that wouldn't ship to Canada. It was our excuse anyway.
I remember Gary and Leslie teasing Brad forever about missing the turn to their road, and going 20 miles past the road before we turned around and got to the house. And Leslie was holding up her wonderful dinner for us to get there.
On another trip for delivery... we all met at the golf course for dinner. We stayed there talking till they kicked us out, because they wanted to close, and after we finally said our good-byes, Brad and I missed the ferry to get back home by 7 minutes. Boy did we get a big laugh out of that one the next time we seen each other!
I will hold on to these memories, and many others, for the rest of my life. Never forget them, because they are all that we have now.
Lonna Newby
Matt, Jeff, Gary
Our heartfelt sympathies to you all. News of her passing seemed just unreal. We both had Mrs. Nantais as a teacher during the late 1980's. What a fabulous person she was. Her energy seemed to rub off on all those she knew. We bumped into Mrs. Nantais last winter, just before her retirement, where she spoke of the travelling ahead. It was nice to chat & get caught up.
You have been in our thoughts & prayers and will be in the days and months ahead.
Kelly & Carolyn Zivanov (nee Bracken)
Hello
I rode with your mom and dad just a week or so before all this happened. I will always remember the fun ride and visit to the pumpkin patch craft show as your mom shopped for the perfect "double sided" tea towel. Later we shared simple carefree conversation about cool whip on strawberries, polyester pants and kittens on my deck while eating apple pie and brownies. It was a wonderful, simple day full of laughter & friendship - ending with hugs and waves as they headed back home. Now it will be a day I will remember as a special gift from God, for it leaves me with precious memories.
Gary, Jeff & Matt
Just wanted to let you's know that we are thinking of you and if we can do anything please let us know, whatever it might be.
The Galos Family
Matt, Jeff and Gary
Mrs. Nantais was my grade 9 math teacher in 1998. She had such a love of math and words cannot describe the compassion she showed towards her students. Leslie was a beautiful women always so willing to help those around her.
May your father have a speedy recovery and may the three of you have the necessary strength to get through these trying times. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of need.
God Bless,
Danielle Mills
Leslie was a great person at heart. and the world is at a loss without her. greatest sympathy to all those who knew her. she will be forever remembered!
I can not sum up in a paragraph what your mother/wife did for so many people at our school. As you may know, Essex District High School is not known for being the brightest school in the district and before the Geometry class was canceled (I was in the last one) Mrs. Nantais was the life and blood of the pure academics at that school. She literally forced all of the students to think harder about their subjects and welcomed not only the brilliant but the challenged. I was somewhere between those two... I was semi-intelligent but ummm... a slacker to say it delicately. Even though I gave her reason after reason to give up on me she always stayed after school if I needed help and even invited me into her house in order to receive tutoring from her son. For these reasons she was the only teacher which my friends and I truly respected with out any hesitation. She was also the only reason I was accepted into a good school in general. In grade 12 I decided to apply to 9 different Universities around Ontario (I really didn't know if I would get accepted and wanted to make sure I would have at least one option). At the last minute I decided to shuffle around my choices and included University of Waterloo as my wild card (chances were good I wouldn't get in). I changed Data Management to Geometry and off I went. Little did I know that later that year I would get accepted to all 9 Universities including the slightly prestigious UW. What I am trying to say is if it wasn't for this woman I would not have had Geometry to switch to, would not have been accepted to the great school I am at now and ultimately would not have as bright of a future as I have now. I owe a lot to her and the world is not the same place without her here. She is missed by many.
Matt and Jeff,
I am so sorry for your loss and I have the fondest memories of your mother coming to our jazz concerts, she always told me that secretly even though she loved the trumpet and trombone, she liked the clarinet the best. She was always smiling and encouraging in the hallways and I'll always remember her as such a great supporter of EDHS music. I can only hope you guys are doing as best as your possibly can, and even though it has been many years since I have seen either of you, you are in my thoughts.
Stephanie Schweitzer
No words could ever describe how sorry I am. Not a day goes by where don't think about what happened a year ago. Truly, sorry, from the bottom of my soul.
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